A good article for girls!~:)
Zongjie: Stay away from emotionally unavailable men~
Definition: “An emotionally unavailable relationship occurs whenever one partner is unable to reach out and make a heart connection with another person, while the other partner feels it is somehow his/her fault and thus bears the responsibility to fix it by being perfect.”
Tips: Ladies, take a mental note of the qualities of emotionally unavailable men:
1. Emotionally unavailable men are extremely hard to get close to but especially harder to stay close to. They tend to want to be alone or need space, may want to hang out with friends, or do anything that doesn't include being close to you.
2. They ignore your opinions and requests and assume theirs are superior.
3.They are critical and judgmental of your actions. They may hold these actions against you as an excuse for neglecting you in the relationship or an excuse for not wanting to be around you.
4.They are often too tired, sick, busy or preoccupied with things that interfere with the time they could be spending with you.
5. They refuse to commit to a relationship.
6.They are emotionally distant except in the beginning stages of the relationship when they are trying to win you over. Jeremy Strauss, junior, can relate to this point since he claims that, at first, an emotionally unavailable male will try to get girls to like him to “pull out all the stops. But after things get comfortable [he] tends to relax.” If one partner is becoming distant in a relationship, this is when the real danger begins.
Feeling guilty for wanting more out of a relationship is inexcusable. So what if you want to be pampered with hugs and kisses from your main squeeze? You are an amazing person with tons to offer in a relationship and there are many single and emotionally available men out there who are willing to give you happiness. Say goodbye to heartaches and disappointments and embrace a healthier outlook on love. because you are worth it!